Wednesday, August 31, 2005

The Perfect Man

These are qualities that I decided I want in the men I date from now on. I've seen the spectrum and have learned from my many mistakes. I wish I was one of the lucky people that just learns from other's mistakes...hehe...but alas; I am not. So here goes -

1. Financially responsible; If a guy can take me out the day before payday, then he probably has decent money management abilities.

2. Personable and outgoing; I can't handle shy guys. I'm a social butterfly so if you haven't left the cocoon yet - its just not gonna work out.

3. Regular bather; I really don't think I need to explain. As MSgt Carey would say "Wawawaash ya ass. Wash ya ass."

4. Smart, but not in a condescending way; I don't want to feel like an idiot, but I also don't want to date one.

5. Confident; He's got to be secure with himself and the relationship, I have alot of male friends that aren't goin anywhere.

6. Athletic; I'm not talkin olympian here, but its important to take care of your body. Laziness is never a turn-on, nor does it help in other areas...

7. Domesticated; I am not a mother, nor do I want to serve in that capacity to a grown ass man! Clothes, shoes, toothbrushes, towels - they all have their places and I guarantee its not the middle of the floor.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Well said.

LisaGail said...

Thank you...it took me a few days to get everything I thought I wanted on there.